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Bank Stain

This post has got absolutely NOTHING to do with modelling. It is written by the Editor as the middle aged, annoyed with life, woman with an avenue to vent via her career, that she is.

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“Once again the BANKING system hasn’t failed to leave a nasty taste in my mouth today. In fact, not so much a nasty taste, more of a permanent STAIN.  Grr.

Not content with leaving me hanging on the telephone for over an hour, giving me false hope at the possibility of literally THOUSANDS of options. Surely one will help me? Nope, not one option applicable to me. Where is the ‘SPEAK TO AN ACTUAL PERSON’ option we all want? In fact, the ONLY option any of us want. And no, we don’t care how much that costs the BANKERS. Not one bit.

I set up my bank account over 30 years ago with a small birthday present of £2 given to me by my late Grandmother. My particular bank of choice was the one a ten year old girl would clearly opt for with a love of horses. And what other reason at the time should there be?

So I continued with this account, making no defaults, owing no funds, always keeping it up to date and within the parameters allowed at any time. I earned various benefits as a result of my flawless behaviour. And this was much appreciated. But in 2014 to say thanks for being such a long serving and loyal customer they changed my account to another bank. Cheers. Perhaps asking me first would have been a good idea? The first I knew of it was the change from ‘green’ to ‘blue’ on my internet banking screen. Everything else stayed the same, therein creating some confusion about the enormity of the situation. Apparently everyone in my ‘postcode’ got ‘automatically switched’ to the change of bank during a corporate take-over. How special that makes me feel. To be ‘automatically switched as a result of my postcode’. So intimate. So deeply personal. SO BLOODY INCONVENIENT. My POSTCODE doesn’t provide this change of bank within a reasonable geographic distance for me. Who did the postal code homework? Han Solo?

My unrequested, currently very much unwanted bank have subsequently argued that they wrote to tell me about this. Well I’m sure they probably did. But as a working mum of two small children also running a business, when do I have time to read what is immediately identifiable as ‘junk’ mail from my bank? I work from home. I receive a lot of mail. I don’t have time to open what appears to be marketing drivvel. I do everything online.  Largely because unless I visit a branch I can’t do anything any other way anymore. Ok, so hands up. I should have read my mail. But surely there is an option open to a loyal customer to resolve this? 

Well there is… just not a satisfactory one!

To switch back to my original bank, I would lose all my account benefits. My bank. The one I chose at the age of ten, with my beloved Grandmother. The one I have not only a financial interest in but a sentimental attachment to. I now stand to lose my insurances, account benefits, my overdraft facility. Everything. Even the account number I have imprinted on my brain after being a customer for so long. I don’t even get to keep that. I have to set up a new bank account in order to be back with my bank. What? The one I had in the first place. You see they don’t offer the benefits I have, on my account, that belongs to me, to new customers. BUT I HAVE BEEN YOUR CUSTOMER FOR THIRTY YEARS!

Set up a standing order. Ok easy. The bank will ring to confirm you are making this transaction. Please key in the code. Great. Well ring then. Hello? Why are you not ringing my phone? Sorry but we couldn’t connect to your telephone number which is completely accurate and there is no explainable reason, but anyway we can’t. Please ring this number to continue.

Sorry we can’t help you because even though you have answered every security question on the planet relating to your account that even the BANK don’t know the answers to, we can’t help you because you haven’t received the magic security number through the post we claim to have sent you a year ago.

FFS

I just want to set up a standing order. To pay someone. On a regular basis. Using my money. From my bank account. That I own. That I pay the bank for. Why is this so BLOODY DIFFICULT?

“You will have to visit your local branch in order to continue with this now as the banking system has ‘locked you out’.”

SUPER! My ‘local bank’ is over 30 miles away. I have LOADS of spare time available to go on a jolly to my ‘LOCAL BANK’ to sort out something that BELONGS TO ME that I AM NOT ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT because I don’t have a poxy SECURITY NUMBER.

I have spent over a week dealing with the setting up of a direct debit for TEN POUNDS A MONTH. An entire week of my life, I will never get back. And all because the BANKING system will not acknowledge me as a human being.

Is it any wonder we are in the financial crisis that we are with such customer UNfriendly services and unacceptably time consuming procedures just to ACCESS OUR OWN INFORMATION.

Oh yes identity theft. Right. And other CRIMINAL activity. That’s why these security measures are in place. SUPER. So even though I am not a criminal, pay my taxes, abide by the law, work my arse off, pay my bills, live honestly and with integrity… I ultimately am the one to suffer.

Well cheers to everyone who has put the many good people in this and many similar frustrating situations. Cheers and thanks a lot. I tell you what might help though. If in the AUTOMATED BANKING system  the following option is provided:

‘To speak to an ACTUAL HUMAN BEING, please say FOR F**** SAKE’ or key in ‘FOR F**** SAKE’ after the tone. That would help. That I think would enable the majority of banking customers to save time, money and believe they are actually getting a service they are paying for.”

#justanidea #bankstain #bank

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A models choice? They don’t know they’re born!

Oscar-winning actress Kim Basinger has gone back to her modelling roots by signing a contract with IMG Models aged 60 joining her 18-year-old daughter, Ireland Baldwin, on the established agency’s books.

Basinger’s modelling potential was first spotted in 1969 when she was just 16 and a contestant in a local beauty pageant by Ford Models co-founder Eileen Ford. At first she declined their offer of a contract and instead enrolled at the University of Georgia, only to reconsider months later, leave university and move to New York to begin modelling professionally.

She stopped modelling in 1976 after becoming frustrated with the industry and decided to concentrate on her acting career, moving to Los Angeles and taking acting workshops.

“It was very hard to go from one booking to another and always have to deal with the way I looked. I couldn’t stand it. I felt myself choking,” she has previously said of the job.

A statement made by many a professional working model. It can be draining having to constantly make sure every inch of you is in peak condition. Most people will consider it a choice and not one to be moaned about once made.

But is it a choice? What if the average working model only chooses this because they have, or indeed think they have no other avenue or career path available to them that would provide them with the same level of income? That said, could it ever be considered a hardship?

The old expression ‘some people don’t know they are born’ springs to mind. But what does that mean? Is it just a cover up for good old fashioned jealousy? The expression has many a theory behind it’s meaning. But for the most part it seems to be agreed that it predominantly means that the person accused has something of greater value than their awareness of it. And that said, this equally being a common opinion of those who model, by those who don’t.

Whilst it is a fabulous career and indeed somewhat of an accolade if successful, nothing is just given. We may well be born with looks to achieve it. But that does not necessarily come with the desire to. Equally we may not have the right look and want such a career more than anything else. Or is this simply a case of the grass being greener?

Conclusion

Too much moaning and complaining makes for continued column inches. Everyone moans. We all complain. Nothing is ever going to be ‘fair’ or ‘perfect’. Because if it were, we would all live a life of boredom with no reason for conversation, competition, aspiration or progression.

To those who think Kim is too old to model or wrong to complain about the low points of her career – focus on your own life, identify your own weaknesses and fix those. Leave Kim to sort her own life out any which way she chooses.

To those who don’t believe that beauty pageants are a platform for success in a variety of careers – please read the above.

To those who know nothing about the modelling, beauty or fashion business but claim to be industry experts regardless – 😐

Lots of love from,

Every Model Mag

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RIDICULOUS EMAIL ADDRESSES

Ah yes, ridiculous email addresses. There is nothing more irritating than searching through your emails for a recent enquiry under the actual name of the person who sent it with not a chance of EVER finding it. But why? Surely searching for the actual HUMAN NAME OF A PERSON would be the most sensible way of quickly tracing a mail right? You are quite likely to find an email quickly that way aren’t you? Yes you are. And let’s face it, most busy working professionals may have the systems in place to file mails in an ‘easy to find again’ manner, but rarely do they have the time.

So, a model booker is sitting at at their work station with far too many things to do for the length of day given, and needs to instantly find an email a potential model sent them last week. But this is NOT going to happen if your email address is called something like, let’s say, “Pwiddyicklefing@ridiculous.com”

HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO FIND IT THEN PWIDDY.ICKLE.FING?End result… potential model signing = NO model signing.

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So, “pink&sparkly@highlyembarrassing.com”, what makes you think you would be suitable for the role advertised? I guess it would depend on the business, what role it was advertising etc. But for the world of modelling at a high level? Not a chance!

Seriously though, the modelling industry is a BUSINESS just like any other. Would you apply for any other job under the heading of “I’mthefitone@nobrainer.com”? Just because the modelling industry has a great deal of young people in it, looks like fun and is deemed as glamorous, does not mean that you are dealing with your friends at the end of an email. You are more likely to be communicating with a much older person, a professional, and someone who has the power to sign or NOT sign you. And one who will take one look at your ridiculous email address and either, dash to the bathroom as a response to their utter disgust, and / or delete it spontaneously.

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Oh and incidentally, those who are in the business will know that the above statement ‘looks like fun…’ has a strong emphasis on the ‘looks like’. It can be fun of course, but it is hard work, requires dedication, commitment and self discipline to succeed. That and a huge number of other variables more appropriate for another blog at a later date.

So be professional. Keep your ‘ridiculous’ email address for personal use (if you must). But set up a professional email address, preferably using your ACTUAL name.

To be honest there aren’t even a great deal of your friends who will find your ridiculous email amusing either. Do yourself a favour and get rid!

 

 

Is Amy Willerton a victim of bullying?

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Bullying Amy Willerton – unacceptable behaviour

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So last night we saw Amy do her very best to attempt to create a calmer atmosphere in camp on I’m a Celeb, despite the situation created being no fault of her own. This is typical behaviour from a victim of bullying. A bullied individual will attempt to create peace even when not at fault. Largely out of fear and intimidation.

There is a great article released today in The Daily Star. Take a look online. http://www.dailystar.co.uk/showbiz-tv/im-a-celebrity-get-me-out-of-here/353844/I-m-a-Celebrity-Lucy-Pargeter-out-to-get-jungle-beauty-Amy-Willerton

More support is needed for victims of bullying. Anyone can be a victim and so many people are. It simply isn’t acceptable to be insulting, vindictive or behave in a bullying manner towards anyone.

Do people actually think that if someone is aesthetically beautiful that somehow they have less or no feelings?

It is widely recognised that it is unacceptable to be rude about a persons appearance. It is therefore surely equally unacceptable…

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Bullying Amy Willerton – unacceptable behaviour

So last night we saw Amy do her very best to attempt to create a calmer atmosphere in camp on I’m a Celeb, despite the situation created being no fault of her own. This is typical behaviour from a victim of bullying. A bullied individual will attempt to create peace even when not at fault. Largely out of fear and intimidation.

There is a great article released today in The Daily Star. Take a look online. http://www.dailystar.co.uk/showbiz-tv/im-a-celebrity-get-me-out-of-here/353844/I-m-a-Celebrity-Lucy-Pargeter-out-to-get-jungle-beauty-Amy-Willerton

More support is needed for victims of bullying. Anyone can be a victim and so many people are. It simply isn’t acceptable to be insulting, vindictive or behave in a bullying manner towards anyone.

Do people actually think that if someone is aesthetically beautiful that somehow they have less or no feelings?

It is widely recognised that it is unacceptable to be rude about a persons appearance. It is therefore surely equally unacceptable to demean those we consider to be beautiful, or too thin? Or is it?

The ‘weight debate’ is constantly an issue within the modelling industry. There are many variables involved in a persons weight. And just because someone is slim does not automatically mean they are anorexic or have an eating disorder. Is it acceptable to call someone ‘fat’? No. It is considered an insult. So why is it ok to say ‘You are too thin. You look emaciated.’ A comment heard way too often by models who are in actuality fit, healthy and naturally thin. If there is to be a rule it has to apply to everyone surely?

Editor of Every Model Magazine, Ruth Deane is often interviewed about such issues. She tells us of one particular example that appalled her.

Ruth tells us, “Radio FiveLive interviewed me alongside Dr Julia Long a couple of years ago. We were discussing beauty pageants. She asked me why, and I quote, “A big fat hairy lesbian didn’t win Miss World”. I remember thinking how utterly disgusting this comment was. Aside from bringing a persons sexuality unnecessarily into the subject it was an assuming, crude and ridiculous thing to say. Beauty is what it is. What we all find to be beautiful is personal. If we were to be presented with a bowl of pretty flowers or a bowl of sewage – which would our senses deem to be the most attractive? That has nothing to do with ‘social perception’ or ‘media influence’. That’s down to science. People should be more aware of the reality around them than attempting to gain points or kudos or whatever it is they think they stand to gain from belittling, insulting or bad mouthing any human being for the way they look”.

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